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A Guide to Write a Great Profile

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OK … time has come. You joined an online dating service or two. Now you write that all important profile … one that will attract attention and reel in the man of your dreams … but where to start? Maybe writing is not even something you think you do so well. However, you can do that.

The first thing to be completely honest about yourself. Looking like the man who … maybe one day love … you …. The real you! Examine past relationships and list the things you liked and what you do not like. If he smoked in the house and you hated, you do not like it better next time. If you love cats and will always want to have one or more, say you’re an animal lover and want animals inside. Someone who hates cats or is allergic to them is not the guy for you.

Accent the things that make you unique. If you play the piano well, you really want Mr. Right to appreciate it. If you participate in marathons, a couch potato is not a good match. If you love art, you really do not want a man who thinks Picasso is an ice cream flavor.

Describe the things that are important in your life. If volunteering is the only thing that makes you feel useful and interesting, you want someone who would at the very least, support you if not join you in your volunteer projects. When you get beyond superficial things, you will attract men who share your values.

Invest in your online profile by hiring a professional photographer for the first line of image. This is very important. The image is the first thing people will see. Another thing is that they read, what you have written. Some online dating sites even provide a list of photographers in your area that specialize in online dating site photos.

Girls Also Do It, Too

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It ‘true that when I started online dating sites are populated entirely perverts, sexual predators, weirdoes, social misfits and emotional wrecks but that is no longer true. Online dating has gone mainstream and has lost all the social stigma it once suffered. The singles of all ages, races, religions and both sexes do it. Short people, tall people, thin people, obese people do. People from every developed country in the world to do so. Pretty girls do it too. Reasons people join online dating sites are as varied as the people to join, but more often are related to three reasons: (1) Time (2) Money and (3) It works.

Time: You can go through hundreds of profiles online and see hundreds of photos at once, just one day in the real world and the projection has been done for you. You can immediately tell if a man is just looking for casual or long term commitments. How many times have you worked 8 hours, gone home and spent an hour getting ready to leave went to the local hang-out for singles only to see the usual idiots, losers and drunks that are always there?

Price: the price of one night out of town, you can enjoy the entire month of meeting men of the security of your home …. And ‘in pajamas or sweats and a beauty facial working its magic.

What really works if you’re willing to do things right. Write a profile that attracts attention, send recent photos of yourself, be fun and interesting while talking to the men they meet online, answering emails promptly and being on time for a pre-arranged meeting online.

Single 30 Something Woman Dating Tips

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Life is not fair. Men get all the breaks. You used all your 20 years to get your career on the floor. Not that you were not together … you have, but not seriously. Now you are here … 30 something and there is no long term relationship in near future. You can hear your biological clock ticking. You have one year to find a few precious man to fall in love, to fall in love with you, marry and have a baby or its lights. You already know all the men around you. Not that they are not nice guys … some of them … but none of them is your soul mate. What’s a girl to do?

Consider online dating. You can read hundreds of profiles and look at hundreds of photos in their quest for “someone” that will be good for you. Maybe he will live in the same city you do … Maybe he will live across the country or even in another country altogether. You are not restricted to men you come into contact with anyone. The possibilities are almost endless.

“And ‘online dating safe,” he asks. “The online dating sites made entirely by perverts, sexual predators and weirdoes assorted shapes and sizes?” The answer is, do not. Not anymore, anyway. This was true when online dating first came on the scene, but is now mainstream. And ‘as safe as you make using common sense and discernment. Use the same precautions you would when meeting any stranger. Do not give your real name, address and telephone number until you feel safe in this way. Do not rush a face to face until you are sure and make the first meeting in a public place and during the day. Try … The right man could be a few mouse clicks away.